This post was triggered by the following video put together by
Channel 4's 4thought.tv program:
Dharmender's main point seems to be that Christmas should not just be
for Christians, but everyone. To support this argument he gives examples of how this festival is secular rather than religious.
I have to say that
I agree with almost everything Dharmender says. Christmas today is certainly more than a religious festival. Most rituals associated with it (the tree, gifts, Santa, hollies, etc) revolve around the theme of humanity and hail back to pagan origins. There is no reason why anyone should be excluded from celebrating this festival. As he says, it's a great time for family, food and reflection.
But I differ on one important matter. He states that
all the rituals associated with Christmas is "mainly pagan." Granted, he is careful in chosing the word "
rituals" (activities), so his statement does not deny the obvious point that millions of people associate this time of the year with Christian "
ideas." However, he's not just "not denying" this fact - he's evading any discussion or acknowledgement of it. Moreover, even if we're only talking about rituals, he seems to forget the ubuquitous tradition of singing carols about the virgin birth and putting up decorations of the nativity scene. Surely these rituals are not "mainly pagan." Although you may say that I am nit-picking over semantics, I think that his presentation is potentially very misleading. By omitting any references to the Christian aspects of this festival, Dharmender paints an unrealistic 'black and white' notion of
secular Christmas, when in truth, it is a holiday which means different things (both secular and religious) to different people.
So yes, Christmas is
for everyone, atheist, Muslim, Buddhist or Hindu. Like any day which people associate with various values, it doesn't really
belong to any particular group.
But all that
does not emasculate the season from the Reason so many Christians associate it with: Jesus, who appeared as fellow human to reach out to us.
I'm not upset with Dharmender for this oversight, which I'd like to believe was not deliberate. But I'll be saddened if we who've tasted and seen Christ's give of love, paint ourselves a predominantly
secular notion of Christmas.
To
everyone out there: Merry Christmas, with wishes of peace and joy!